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  • Who Is Your Interpreter?

    When I was in seventh grade, I went on a mission trip to Peru with a group of teenagers from my church.  The native language in Peru is Spanish and, “Me no hablo espanol,” so if I wanted to communicate with anyone there who, “No hablan ingles,” I had to have an interpreter.

    Interpreter: a person who translates the words that someone is speaking into a different language.

    I can still remember our group’s interpreter, Liz.  She had wavy, dark hair and wore red lipstick. She not only translated what we were saying to the Peruvians, but she translated what they were saying to us. 

    If she were ornery she could have really messed with me by misinterpreting some of the things I needed her to translate.  I could have asked her to order me a hamburger and French fries and since I don’t recognize very many Spanish words she could have ordered me a plate of fried guinea pig and I wouldn’t have known it until the “delicacy” arrived at the table.

    A few weekends ago I was at a women’s conference listening to one of my favorites, Pastor Jimmy Evans, when he said something that hit me like a ton of bricks. I pray as you read this it has that same type of impact on your life.

    “Stop letting the devil interpret the people in your life to you.”

    Satan is an interpreter.  He will take words, thoughts, and actions, and translate them into a different language, his native language.

    John 8:44 (NIV) When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies.

    I’ve heard many teachings on how the devil will lie to you about yourself.  He’s great at making you think you aren’t good enough, smart enough, or spiritual enough.  He knows just what thoughts to plant in your head to make you feel inadequate.  I’ve learned through the years how to recognize his voice and take those thoughts captive by meditating and declaring what God’s Word says about me.

    I don’t let the devil interpret me to me, I am all God says I am, but what about other people in my life: my husband, my kids, my friends, my leaders, my God?  When the enemy plants a thought about one of them in my mind, am I as quick to recognize that it’s a lie?  Am I as quick to run that thought off by speaking God’s Word and declaring that the person Satan is interpreting to me is all God says THEY are? 

    Satan cannot be trusted as an interpreter.  Eve learned this the hard way.  In the third chapter of Genesis she has one conversation with Satan where she allowed him to interpret God to her.  She doubted God’s goodness and His motives, all based on lies and misinterpretations from a conniving snake. 

    Satan loves to tear relationships apart, especially marriages.  He is an expert at taking one thing your spouse said or did, or didn’t do, and translating it to you in a way that causes you to take up a great offense with them. Maybe it’s something as small as your husband not taking out the trash when you asked him to.  It wasn’t a shot at you or a picture of his lack of love for you, but if given the chance, Satan will interpret that one action into a lie that causes you to resent your husband and then he will continue to build on that. 

    When you find yourself frustrated with the people in your life, ask yourself why.  Is it, perhaps, because you have been letting a liar interpret them to you?  Don’t stand for that!  Defend your loved ones with the Word of God like you would defend yourself.

    I Corinthians 13:6-7 (NIV) Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.